Failure, it reflects in all the things around you. It comes when as discussed before when we have face rejection or loss in any scenario.
Failure, as occurs after loss, has its own beauty to shape us in a manner as to avoid further losses in the future series of events.
Failure, other than giving us a reality check, gives us a perspective to life where we tend to think about the things in a manner where we are not too optimistic neither are we pessimistic.
Failure, put aright one of the key things that motivates us in our life which is "EXPECTATIONS" from other worldly things.
"EXPECTATIONS" arise when we have an urge to acquire and get something or someone in the world. This can be a job, person, position, money, power or as simple as a compliment from someone on something very obvious.
Failure, occurs when we are unable to get the following things, why this happens is simply complex yet we try to shed light over the subject.
Everything in this life that we know of in the world and interact with has its own life being a person and value being a thing. When we urge to acquire that very thing we are in a race with others around us to acquire the very thing in the very given time.
Considering the fact that we have limited time in a day with a lot to do, we give our best shot to acquire the very thing in the very possible resources we have, time being the most valuable as it defines your life.
Yet we fail to recognize the fact that we are not the only one with the urge and resources and that the very thing we are in a race to acquire has no guarantee of life as a person or value as a thing to remain the same even when we acquire it as "LIFE" & "VALUE" deteriorates with time.
So, we are increasingly putting efforts to acquire worldly stuff which has a decreasingly decreasing value in real.
So, what to aspire then?
So, what to acquire the?
So, what should drive me in life?
So, i need to run after something or life is meaningless, isn't it?
So, what should be done if not this?
So, what's the purpose?
So, whom to subjugate?
As humans we are by nature bound to subjugate, at all times we are subjugating to something even if we don't agree, just think for a while what do you really want right now.
Money?
Fame?
Girl?
Car?
That Client/Project?
That "A" Grade?
That person happy?
What you want is what you run after and what you run after is what you plan for and what you plan for is what you act upon and what you act upon is what consumes your life ..... SIMPLE ...
So, decide who is worthy enough to consume your life!
So, decide who or what is worthy enough to consume your planning!
So, decide who or what is worthy enough to be a goal of your life!
So, decide whom do you want to please for the rest of your life!
So, who is worthy enough!
Once you have found such a thing/being/existence/interaction/reality you will keep expectations from only that.
And how can then be your expectations broken?
How can then you FAIL again!
So, the search is on... As it is meant to be as a human ...
Reflect!
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