In The Times of Down ...Chapter 1

Failure, it comes all of a sudden! Makes everything else at that time a mere useless and unwanted series of events which gives you certainly no happiness at that very time when you face failure.

Failure when arrives, arrives with a series of events which multiplies the intensity of the emotional & rational downturn which it brings along and the very thing it plants or elevates in the man is "PESSIMISM".

Failure is an interaction with the universe where it is defined as the mere rejection, surprise or loss of something in an occurrence around you. Being humans we never plan for them, neither do we plan it as being optimistic in life.

During Failure. thus the very first thing you develop as a human in your life while facing the " TIMES OF DOWN" is pessimism and thus with the load of pessimism you bring your optimistic nature to a balance where you stabilize yourself emotionally.

I think this is what people call "BEING STRONG" or "BEING MATURE", where you have stricken a balance between your optimism on steroids and have come to a mean point where neither you are pessimist nor optimist but a "REALIST".

"FAILURE MAKES YOU A REALIST"

Yet if you live in that pessimism you tend to develop a continued state of hatred for everything which is thus called "DEPRESSION". So, come out of it and accept it.

BUT HOW????  We don't control our mood!!! HOW??? Can we really???

OF COURSE YOU CAN!!!!!

To combat pessimism you need to get away from your inner self or core as when you reach there for answers as to why all this is happening, due to your mood what you get as an echo is "PESSIMISM" leading to constant "DEPRESSION".

Thus the first thing to realize is that, you don't have the solution to the problem and of course you need to hang onto someone or something which gives you the solution and of course it is not you!

So who is someone who is as wide as to take your failures?
So who is someone who is as free as to give you time?
So who is someone who is as sage as to give you solutions?
So who is someone who is as insightful as to understand your situation better than you?
So who is someone whom you can linger onto for the rest of your life with failures yet to come?

So who is someone who falls into the above criteria and many more you look for......

Of course not a human and for sure not someone around you or someone you know of or else you would not have been in this situation with this void...

Thus look for a being who is free of needs.
Thus look for a being who is ready to listen to you at all time.
Thus look for a being who is ready to communicate with you in all the manners which you could not even think of.
Thus look fr someone who loves you unconditionally.

Thus your search for that someone begins...
It goes on and it intensifies...
It brings you closer to yourself...
It brings you closer to a lot of other questions..
Thus you seek answers...
Once you seek something only do you get it...

Failure ignites a search for the strongest of force that you can have in your life.
Failure ignites the realist within you which you were ignoring.
Failure ignites your reason, searching for answers.

 So
"LOVE FAILURES" 
"CELEBRATE FAILURES" 
"CAPITALIZE FAILURES" 

 and most importantly

"REMEMBER FAILURES".

Because you are as strong as the "TIMES OF DOWN" you've been through.

Maybe failure is just a call from the someone who loves you unconditionally to come back to him....

Reflect!